Ruby stone symbolize love and passion and create a very captivating look with black outfits
Diamond or pearl studs coupled with a simple necklace (I recommend Princess to Opera-length) certainly work well here
Unless you're going to an awards show & your shoes have been dyed to match your navy dress perfectly
Torn jeans too are probably pushing it a bit and shouldnt be worn as smart casual, leave them for the BBQs and around at your mates
These are the top stores I look at when shopping for dresses for curves: Target (the mothership) Torrid Asos Curve dresses (also try the regular Asos section, their size 12 is pretty good!) Anthropologie Old Navy H&M (can be hit or miss, but the hits are great) If you are looking for curvy not plus size clothing and dresses, I hope this post helps you find something cute
Just order it way early, ignore the expedited shipping option, and maybe have a friend help you tie the back because doing it alone is impossible