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She prefers her caftans understated I dont want sequins

You have a bit more flexibility to play around with silhouettes and fabrics aka, cotton sundresses or mini skirts, and linen shirts paired with chinos

What to Wear to a Kentucky Derby Party Outfit #1 Dress AKIRA (Similar HERE and HERE)// Shoes Tory Burch Clutch Kelly Wynne (Similar HERE and HERE) Earrings Baublebar // Hat Nordstrom // Sunglasses YSL This second look is one of my absolute favorite Kentucky Derby inspired looks

Choose one that is comfortable to stand up beside so you wont need to bend down too far for diaper changes

For middle-of-the-road shoe styles, double monk straps or derby shoes are great to wear with a grey suit

You can pick up an accordion fan at Dollar Tree-type stores these can be a godsend